In
my culture silence has always been negative. When receiving the silent
treatment a high percentage of the time it’s because of some action that was
taken that ended in a negative outcome. Also in my cultural when you are silent
many people start building negative perceptions about you because it’s unusual
it be silent. One of my past professors did mediation for two weeks and there wasn’t
any verbal communications. She explained how she enjoyed this activity because it
provided her with the time to clear her head and relax. I couldn’t figure out
how she was able to accomplish being relaxed with the pressure of being silent
for two weeks.
Early
on in the semester I shared a story about my goal of attending graduate school
but needing more experiencing before applying. Within these last couple of week
at Kaiser I have had the opportunity to review case studies for children who experience
child abuse. I haven’t yet decided on the area of study I would like to focus
on. Watching the film last week Aging out, reading these case studies and
interning at the Boys&Girls Club house has me questioning if my emphasizes
should be in the child welfare direction. I was wondering for the Grad students
how were you able to identify which direction to take. The only population I have
experience with is children. It’s scary because applications are coming out October
1st and I haven’t even decided on a focus. I was also wondering if you
have a idea of what direction you would like to take in the field could that be
acceptable for the 1st year of grad school. I was thinking that the
first year would provide me with an internship and help decided on what to focus.